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Bethany Elton, LMFT

Bethany Elton, LMFT

Licensed in California · Telehealth Only

CA License #160671

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Hi, I’m Beth.

Most of my clients didn’t grow up thinking therapy was something they’d ever do. Veterans, combat veterans, and adults carrying trauma they’ve never had space to talk about. That includes men who’ve learned to push through, and women who’ve spent years holding everything together for everyone else.

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 5 years of experience, the last 3 working primarily with veterans, combat veterans, military spouses, first responders, and adults navigating trauma. I work with people dealing with anxiety, depression, PTSD, trauma responses, attachment wounds, relationship patterns, and the kind of emotional shutdown that builds up over years of survival mode.

My sessions are soft, but also straightforward. No pressure to open up before you’re ready, no jargon, no homework you didn’t ask for. Just a consistent space to work through what’s actually going on, at your pace.

I work exclusively via telehealth, so you can meet with me from anywhere in California.

Over 5 years clinical experience, 3 years specializing in veteran and trauma populations
Trained in DBT, alongside trauma-informed, person-centered, and attachment-based approaches
Sliding scale fees based on household income
Cash-pay practice: your diagnosis, your treatment, your privacy

Areas of Focus

Veterans

Combat Veterans

Women with Trauma

Men with Trauma

First Responders

Military Spouses

Trauma

PTSD

Anxiety

Depression

Attachment

Relationships

Life Transitions

Self-Worth

Therapeutic Modalities

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Attachment-Based Therapy Trauma-Informed Care Somatic Awareness Mindfulness-Based Person-Centered

Fees & Session Rates

My fee is based on a sliding scale determined by your gross annual household income. You self-select your tier on the honor system. Fees are self-reported. If your financial situation changes, please let me know so we can adjust your tier accordingly.

Under $80,000 household income
$100 / session
$80,000 – $89,999 household income
$110 / session
$90,000 – $99,999 household income
$120 / session
$100,000 – $124,999 household income
$130 / session
$125,000 – $149,999 household income
$150 / session
$150,000 and above household income
$175 / session
Pro Bono Slots
I reserve 2 pro bono slots for clients experiencing significant financial hardship. Pro bono clients are charged their hourly wage per session, with a minimum of $25 per session. Please discuss directly with me. Availability is not guaranteed.
Payment: Payment is due at the time of each session. For insurance clients, sessions are booked and billed through Headway. See accepted insurance plans below.

Accepted Insurance Plans

I accept insurance through Headway. Sessions are booked and billed directly through their platform, making it easy to use your benefits without any extra paperwork on your end.

Aetna

Cigna

Blue Shield

Carelon Behavioral Health

Anthem Blue Cross CA

Providence

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FAQ

No. While a lot of my work is with veterans, combat veterans, military spouses, and first responders, I also work with any adult who’s carrying something heavy - whether that came from a difficult childhood, a high-stress career, a relationship, or years of holding everything together for everyone else. Trauma doesn’t require a uniform. If something has been weighing on you and you haven’t had space to put it down, you’re welcome here.

Yes - and honestly, most of my veteran clients come in having never done therapy, or having had one bad experience that put them off it. There’s no expectation that you know how to do this. We go at your pace, you don’t have to talk about anything before you’re ready, and a lot of people are surprised that it doesn’t have to feel like what they imagined it would. Active duty and post-service veterans are both welcome - most of my clients are post-service, typically two to fifteen years out.

It can be. Anger - especially the kind that comes out of nowhere, goes from zero to ten fast, or shows up after years of feeling fine - is one of the most common and least talked about symptoms of trauma and PTSD. It’s not a character flaw. It’s what happens when your nervous system has been in survival mode for a long time and never got a chance to come down. Therapy can help you understand what’s underneath it and give it somewhere to go.

Trauma therapy helps you process experiences that your nervous system never fully got to work through - whether that’s combat exposure, childhood experiences, loss, or years of chronic stress. It doesn’t always mean going back and reliving everything. Often it’s about understanding how your past is showing up in your present, and building enough safety to start releasing what you’ve been carrying. I use trauma-informed, attachment-based, and DBT approaches, tailored to what works for you.

Yes. First responders - firefighters, law enforcement, paramedics, dispatchers - carry a similar kind of cumulative trauma to veterans, often without the same recognition or support. The culture of pushing through and being the one everyone depends on is something I understand and work with directly. You don’t have to explain that world to me.

That’s a completely normal place to start. Most people aren’t sure. Reaching out doesn’t commit you to anything - it just starts a conversation. As for how long therapy takes, it depends on what you’re working through. Some people feel significantly different in a few months. Others want something more ongoing. I don’t push long-term commitments - we check in regularly about whether what we’re doing is working for you.

Yes - I accept Aetna, Cigna, Blue Shield, Anthem Blue Cross California, Carelon Behavioral Health, and Providence through Headway. Sessions booked through insurance are scheduled and billed directly on the Headway platform. Some clients prefer to pay out of pocket (cash pay) because it keeps a mental health diagnosis off their insurance record and keeps our work completely private. Cash pay sessions follow the sliding scale fee schedule listed above.

Click “Request an Appointment” to send me an email. I work exclusively via telehealth, so sessions are held on a secure video platform - you can meet with me from anywhere in California. I’ll reach out within 1 to 2 business days to schedule your first session. I ask for at least 24 hours notice for cancellations or rescheduling. Life happens - just communicate with me early and we’ll work it out.

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